How to Meet People Abroad Without Staying in Hostels
By TripBFF · · 3 min read
You do not need a dorm bed to have a social trip. Keep the accommodation that suits you, then plan a few activities where meeting people is natural. The main difference is that you arrange those opportunities yourself instead of relying on a common room.
Book one social activity early in the trip
Choose a small-group tour, workshop, or class for your first full day. Meeting someone early gives you more chances to make another plan while your dates still overlap.
Check the format before booking. A guided walk with breaks for questions is more conversational than an experience where everyone listens through headphones. Ask the organizer if you are unsure whether solo participants are common.
Look beyond visitor-only spaces
A recurring language exchange, board-game night, or beginner sports session can be a good fit if you are staying for more than a few days. Returning to the same group makes the second conversation easier.
Respect the purpose of the event. Come ready to participate, follow the group’s rules, and ask whether visitors can join. Local communities are not a guaranteed social service for tourists.
Plan around your own social energy
| If you have… | Try this |
|---|---|
| One free morning | A walking tour, followed by an optional coffee |
| A free evening | A class or public language exchange |
| Several days | Return to one recurring group |
| A workday to fit around | A coworking event that welcomes visitors |
Check opening times, reservations, and visitor access directly. A coworking lounge or hostel event may be restricted to members or guests even if the venue looks public.
Make the invitation easy to understand
Use a travel app or an event conversation to propose something small. “I’m going to the photography exhibition Saturday afternoon—want to join?” is easier to respond to than a request to spend an entire weekend together.
If you meet someone at a class, suggest a nearby café afterward. If they decline, enjoy the rest of your day. Avoid treating a polite conversation as a commitment to become friends.
Keep your room separate from your first meetup
Meet at a public venue instead of inviting a new acquaintance to your accommodation. Keep control of your transport home and let someone you trust know your plans when appropriate.
You can have a lively afternoon and a quiet evening alone. A private room is useful if that balance helps you enjoy travel. Judge the trip by the experiences you want, not by how many hours you spend with other people.